These guys just want one thing

Dear Pastor,

I am 27 and I was in a relationship for three years. I was celibate for a while. I could not find any man that I loved.

Different girlfriends introduced me to guys, but these guys wanted one thing and as soon as I spoke with them, the conversation would lead to sex. Even the educated ones were just the same. I was so disgusted. Then I met a guy online and he seemed to be different, but after I got to know him, he was just the same. One weekend I went to stay with him. I was so naive.

He bought drinks and we ordered food, but Pastor, this man tried to get me drunk and I wouldn't take the bait. He said we should drink up and get wild. He became very aggressive when I refused to do what he wanted me to do. He attempted to undress me but I wouldn't allow him and I told him that I would call the police and that was when he suggested that I leave.

I am so glad that I had driven my own car to his place. Please stick around Pastor to give your good advice to many of us who depend on you every week for advice. Thank you very much.

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

Women complain constantly about men who are only in relationships with them just for sex, and if the women are not willing to have sex with them even on the first date, they are not willing to continue the friendship. You tried to hold on and you believed that you had met a good man but on the very first date, you realised that the man wanted to have sexual intercourse with you and he almost raped you. Well, I am glad that didn't happen. Be very careful where you go and with whom you associate and I wish you well.

Pastor