Should I move in with this man?

Dear Pastor,

I will be 18 years old soon. I have a big problem in my life at this moment. I have been friendly with this guy, but we had an argument and stopped talking to each other.

After a few months passed, we started talking again. Now I have a different problem.

I slept out recently with some family members and when I got home the next morning, I received a call from the guy saying that I should pack my things and leave now.

I have been trying to find a place to stay, but I can't get anywhere.

The guy that I am talking to now says that I should come and stay with him. I need your help.

K.M.

Dear K.M,

It seems to me that your boyfriend does not believe that you slept at the home of your relatives. And for that reason, he is telling you to pack your things and get out of his house.

However, another young man is encouraging you to come and stay with him.

You need to be careful what you do. Otherwise, you may find yourself moving from man to man. Frankly, you should go back to your parents' home and cool out until you are capable of providing for yourself.

You did not say you were trying to find a room to rent; you said that you were trying to find a place 'to stay', and that means that you are trying to find somewhere you can cotch.

So, if it is possible at all, go back to your parents or to relatives who would be sympathetic to your problem.

Pastor